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Count Your Blessings Not Your Things

 If you want to feel rich, just count all of the things you have that money can’t buy. – Anonymous


I can sometimes get caught up in the “Things” race.  I forget quite often to be happy for what I have and instead get stuck in an endless quest to get more.  A better car, more clothes, a bigger tv, the list is endless.  Don’t get me wrong, I need to have a car.  It’s how I get to work, go grocery shopping and all the other minutea that makes up my day lol.  However, the other day I was thinking seriously about getting a NEW car.  Why?  My car works.  Yeah it has a few quirks, but nothing horrible that makes it a death-mobile.  I just wanted a newer car because mine is getting on in years.   I also recently found myself looking at new flat screen televisions to replace the behemoth that currently resides on the dresser in my bedroom.  Guess what, the tv in my bedroom works, I don’t need a new television, I just found myself wanting a newer more streamlined model.  If the tv died, I’d probably replace it because I do enjoy snuggling under the covers and watching tv at night, but for right now, the one I have works fine.  I need to remember to be happy and grateful for what I have in my life and not the things that money can buy.  I have two WONDERFUL and AMAZING kids who are doing very well at their respective colleges.  I have great friends who are their if I need them and a job that I love.  I am so fortunate, and actually I am rich.  Maybe not in monetary things but in all the things that matter.  Maybe it’s time we all take a good long look at our lives and at all the things we do have.

Talent and Effort

If you can’t excel with talent, triumph with effort. ~ Dave Weinbaum

My talents are limited.  I can write – I’m not an amazing writer, but I can usually get my point across via the written word.  I have absolutely NO artistic talent and my misuc ability is limited.  I can carry a tune in a bucket provided it’s in a wheelbarrow, but that’s about it.  So why am I so busy listing all the things I can’t do?  I’ll tell you, it’s because no matter what, I NEVER stop trying.  I’ll probably never have a piece of my artwork hanging up in the Louvre, but does that mean I never draw?  No it does not.  I’m never going to be singing on stage at the MET, but I still sing.  We’re not all gifted in the same things, but we all have the ability to try – to put effort into things.  And it is that effor tthat will help us succeed.

Live with Gratitude.

When it comes to life the critical thing is whether you take things for granted or take them with gratitude. – Gilbert K. Chesterton

I seem to be very gratitude focused this week.  Maybe it’s because of Thanksgiving.  I think a lot of us take a lot of things for granted every day.  Honestly, I don’t sit there and think, “oh I’m breathing, I should be grateful.”  But maybe I should.  I should be grateful for every breath of air that enters my lungs, and for every drop of water that I drink.  This life I’m living (and the one you’re living) it’s a gift, and we should celebrate it and be grateful for it.  Don’t take it for granted.  Fill every second of the day that you can with feelings of gratitude.

Don’t Complain

Be grateful for what you have and stop complaining – it bores everybody else, does you no good, and doesn’t solve any problems. – Zig Ziglar

We all complain…it’s human nature and to say don’t complain is pointless.  But when your every conversation becomes a litany of complaints, it may be time to do some self-reflection and make some changes.  The other day, I was talking with a co-worker and I found myself not just complaining, I was down right WHINING.  I literally caught myself mid sentence and turned it around and ended my whine with, but I’m grateful because….

That’s what you have to do.  When you’re sad, or upset, or life is just getting you down, don’t let it consume you.  Yeah, you’re going to vent about what’s bugging you, but try to tack on something good, or something for which you are grateful.  It works surprisingly well and I bet you’ll find that your complaints are slowly being replaced with feelings and thoughts of gratitude.  :)

Gratitude Starts Within

Gratitude is the fairest blossom which springs from the soul. – Henry Ward Beecher

My students today had a hard time with this quote because they don’t know what gratitude is.  They also don’t seem to know how to look at the root word and figure out the meaning that way, but that’s another story.  Gratitude is so important….feeling grateful and expressing feelings of gratitude is should be such a large part of our lives.   I know there are many people who say they have nothing to be grateful for, and to that I say “Well, you’re alive, right?”  Start with that….be happy you’re alive.  Celebrate that fact.  Be grateful that you have clothing to wear, or food to eat.  Maybe you don’t have enough, but you have some.  I really believe the more gratitude you express, the more things you’ll have to be grateful for.  It’s kind of a circle :) and a good circle at that.

Happiness for All

The most worth-while thing is to try to put happiness into the lives of others. – Robert Baden-Powell

I admit to being more than a little conflicted when I first read this quote.  My immediate thought was that it is more important to make yourself happy first.  Then, I started thinking, really thinking about the times when I’ve gone out of my way to make others happy (actually I do that quite a bit) and I realized something really important.  When I can inject happiness into the lives of other people, I automatically feel happy. It makes me feel GOOD to make other people happy.  So I’m seeing this as a kind of win-win situation.  When I make others happy, I’m also making myself happy.  It’s all good in the end.

Take Some Time

Now and then it’s good to pause in our pursuit of happiness and just be happy. Guillaume Apollinaire

The pursuit of of our goals is important.  We need goals, otherwise, we’d just be aimlessly living our lives.  It’s important to have something to shoot for.  One of the goals that many people are reaching for is happiness, but while you are pursuing that goal, don’t forget to take some time to stop and enjoy the happiness you are experiencing right then and there.  Sometimes it’s okay to just live in the moment and enjoy it.  So sit back and take some time to enjoy the happiness that is your life.  You’ve earned it and you deserve it.

The Past is Your Compass

What’s coming is better than what is gone. Let this belief aim you in the direction you need to go. – Karen Salmonsohn

Sorry – I didn’t get a chance to post this yesterday – color me a slacker.

Stuff happens. We all know that.  But what happens is in the past, it’s over and done.  Take it, learn from it and use it.  Allow it to be your compass to tell you where to go and what to do in the future.  Learn from the experiences that you have had, and demonstrate that learning by using the information.  You’ll get to where you are going if you do.

Disney Wisdom

Our fate lives within us, you only have to be brave enough to see it. – Merida, Brave

I love Disney movies…they impact us on so many level.  Sure they’re fun, and they’re something the whole family can watch, and they are of course entertaining, but they also have a message.  Brave is not one of my favorite movies (mostly because I don’t consider it real animation, but that’s a blog for another day blog), but who can argue with the wisdom of this quote.  If we have the strength to look inside ourselves, to really look, and to reflect on what we find there.  If we listen to that inner voice, and trust it, we can accomplish great things.  Look, reflect, and above all listen to your inner self and get ready to conquer the world.  It’s within your grasp.

Thorns Have Roses

Some people are always grumbling because roses have thorns; I am thankful that thorns have roses. Alphonse Karr

And once again, I am amazed at how perfectly these quotes work out for me.  I seriously pick out the quote of the day a week or more in advance, queue them up and they are sent out automatically on twitter and via email our email list.  I truly don’t give them much thought again until they pop up in my twitter feed and in my email.  It amazes me how often they tie in with my general mood, or with a difficulty I am facing.  I’m in the glumps today.  Nothing seems good and nothing seems right.  No particular reason, I just am.  Well maybe there are a few reasons, lol.   Enter today’s quote and it’s like a slap in the face.  Yeah, I’m in a glumpy mood, and I can focus on that, or I can look at it and say…well the glumps kind of suck, but just think about how much more I’m going to appreciate the good mood when I unglump myself.  And that right there, that little thought has started the unglumping process.  I remembered that I have the power to change my mood.  I can look at the things that have made me glumpy and turn them around until I see the good in them.  Some of them are pretty easy to find good….a few are like my own personal Mt. Everests, but it’s okay….I will find my way to conquor them as well.

Have a great day….I think I’ll start turning mine around and have a good one as well :)

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