Find your strengths and use them in a positive way. Don’t listen to those who ridicule the choices you make.

Finding your strengths is a huge challenge to me because most people find it difficult to accept the strengths that they have and struggle to be something they are not.  I seep people wanting to be athletic, and ignoring the fact that they are very musical, or trying to make themselves be a leader, when in fact they are someone who is compassionate and helpful and is successful at getting things done.  

Don’t try to be someone you’re not, find out who you are and what your strengths are and celebrate them, and yourself.  Celebrate the choices you’ve made and the person you are and don’t listen when the naysayers try and bring you down.