Sometimes good things fall apart, so better things can fall together. – Jessica Howell So sometimes you think you have something wonderful and amazing in your life, and you think, "Hey, this is great."  And then it all explodes and goes ka-phlooey.  It sucks, it really really does.  When that happens, you have a couple of choices, you can fall into a funk and focus on how bad it is and get into a "Woe is me," mode.  You can do that and it's your life so you have every right to do that.  However, you can also regroup, and refocus your energies and start looking around for a way to make things better than before.  Or, maybe things will just fall together on their own, and your only job is to recognize it.  Be open to the fact that the way things were isn't always the way things are supposed to be - as good as they may have seemed, there could be something better coming along.  If you let it.

Some of us learn from other people's mistakes, and the rest of us have to be other people.~ Zig Ziglar I'm not pefect.  I don't pretend to be perfect.  I am in fact, human, and humans are the most imperfect creatures - EVER!   I make mistakes, lots of them, and I try my hardest to learn from them.  I suppose somewhere there is someone who is so good, and so organized, and so perfect that they don't make mistakes and they learn from the mistakes of others, but it's not me.  In fact, I think that person may be kind of on the boring side.  I'm going to revel in my mistakes because I am learning from them, and if I'm making mistakes, learning from them, and growing as a person, then I am LIVING!

The happiest of people don't necessarily have the best of everything, they just make the most of everything that comes along their way.~ Unknown