This one step - choosing a goal and staying to it - changes everything.- Scott Reed I watch people every day flit from goal to goal. I want this, I want that.  It's okay to want - it's actually kind of important to want, but you're not going to GET until you start to focus and work, with determination, toward what it is that you want.  Once you have a goal, or a destination firmly set, you can begin to work toward it, and that determination will help you reach that goal so quickly.  You can do it.  You will succeed.  And then, you get to set another goal, and another and another.  Achieving your goal doesn't mean that it's all over - it's just another new beginning!