Somethings you cannot change, somethings you can, so change what you must, so you can be who you want to be tomorrow.

In the Serenity Prayer, Neibuhr wrote:

God grant me the serenity
to accept the things I cannot change;
courage to change the things I can;
and wisdom to know the difference.

These words are very wise and very, very true.  There are some things in life that happen, that we can change if we’re not happy with them.  Conversely, there are some things in life we just can’t change.  When it is something you can’t change, just accept it and move on.  Don’t dwell on it and focus your energies on it.  Let it go.  If it is something you can change, don’t spend your time talking about the changes – step up and make the changes.  This is your life – make it the life you want!