I received an email asking why, if this website is about thinking positive, am I posting information about the Law of Attraction?  It's a valid question - and I have an answer.  Some may not consider it a valid answer, but it's still an answer.  And of course, it's a long and convoluted answer because that's just the way I am - all convoluted. I grew up with the mantra of plan for the worst, but hope for the best.  Not the greatest way to live your life, but it is how I was raised.  Then one day,  a co-worker loaned me a dvd called The Secret.  I'd seen the book in store for quite a while but I just ignored it.  In fact, I totally judged it by it's cover (which I still dislike) and figured it was the dumbest book ever.    But I watched the dvd and WOW, I thought it was the most amazing thing ever.  Not the whole secret being passed down over generations or the manifesting of perfect parking spaces, but just by the whole concept.  Basically to me what it boiled down to was you get back what you put out, so why not…